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Orphan Spouse: How to Best Cope With Ambiguous Loss?

You’re an orphan spouse when you’re in a relationship but don’t live permanently with your partner under the same roof. Short term assignments, necessity or willingness to pursue dual careers, fly in fly out rosters popular in the mining industry, are some of the reasons why couples are separated for days, weeks, sometimes months in […]

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Expat: You May Be an Orphan Spouse (and Not Even Know It)

Orphan spouse* is what happens when you’re in a relationship… but live separate lives. I hear you saying: “Why would you do that?” Generally because of your work, your partner’s work or both! For days, weeks or months in a row, you’re on your own. The family is divided: on one side, one spouse (generally […]

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Spouse Stipends For Trailing Spouses Work: One Woman’s Story

A few months ago, I discussed here that money can’t buy happiness… but can certainly let you choose your own form of misery. Today, in numerous countries, both men and women can study and have access to exciting careers. Support for childcare has revolutionized the traditional gender roles: men at work, women at home. Dual […]

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Expat Women: 3 Simple But Essential Tips To Keep Your Marriage

*Expat Women: I’ve considered in this article that expat men are the bread earners and expat women the accompanying spouses. I’m aware that it’s a stereotype and that each family is unique. I wouldn’t necessarily recommend the same tips for female expat employees and would love to get in touch with some of them to […]

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Expat Men: 3 Simple but Essential Tips To Keep Your Marriage

When relocating abroad, we automatically think of cross-cultural training and language courses. Those are fine and necessary. But far from home, stressed by all the changes, who are you first and foremost going to rely on? Your partner. And there is one essential topic which is never addressed in this context.   The biggest difference […]

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Learning A New Language: 8 Tips That Really Work

You may believe an ability to learn new languages is something you’re born with, but it’s much more about belief and practice than natural talent. That’s what Carol Dweck, Stanford University Professor and psychologist is sharing in her book “Mindset” after decades of research on success and achievement. What makes you either devastated or still […]

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How A Simple Belief Can Destroy Your Expatriate Life… or Help You Thrive

“This language is too difficult. I’m too old. I can’t learn it anymore. I tried for 6 months already and I hardly see any progress. I’m not gifted in languages anyway. I studied French in high school for so many years and can’t even put 2 sentences one after the other. I’m more of an […]

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5 Tips To Help You Come To Terms With Your Host Country

In the previous article, I explained how I formed my psychological contract with my former host country and how it affected me. All the personal messages I got showed that it resonated with quite a few people!   The truth is: we’re not insensitive. The behavior of the people we’re interacting with influences us! Whether […]

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Expats: One Little Known Factor That Could Harm You (and Your Kids)

I don’t know about you but I make psychological contracts with my host countries. Those psychological contracts, that I form in my head, are “comprised of a belief that some sort of a promise has been made” to me by the country*. How did I become aware of it? I got angry, very angry when […]

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Expatriates: the Invisible Force Ruling Your Marriage (and All Your Relationships)

You may not have thought about it this way, but you make “psychological contracts” in your head all the time. I bet you even know what I mean by psychological contract before I explain it because the idea is simple, obvious and true.       Here is a prime example. Suppose you do something […]

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